... Sensual Massage!
Im lovin this massage oil collection set by KamaSutra on Flirtyordirty.com! I think its great for experimenting, especially for the first time, with sensual massage and erotic play. These wonderfully scented and tasty oils are in beautiful little bottles with stoppers and come in a myraid of colours that wont stain your bed sheets. Perfect as you dont want tell tale signs do you now, that would be something for the holiday hotel staff to raise an eyebrow at - eh?
Never tried sensual massage? Well, be prepared and suggest it to your partner before hand as they need to be happy with the suggestion, if you set the scene and take your time you will both definately reap the rewards.
Heres some Syble tips to the perfect sensual massage:
Comfort Zone:
Lay your partner face-down on a bed or couch in a comfortable position, sometimes a silk cover or soft blanket draped over them can add to the sense of security and comfort. Set the mood with low-level lighting or candles. Aromatherapy candles are wonderful, or add some silk rose petals across the sheets for an added romantic ambiance. Make sure the room is warm or they will want to cover-up at once! remember to take your time, this is not to be rushed through and is an experience of sharing and giving.
Flirty ... not dirty.... yet!
Apply a little massage oil to the palms of your hands and rub gently together to warm the Kama Sutra oil, this makes it easier to apply and wont jolt your partner with a cold shock! NOT condusive to a sensual massage! Remember this is the start of a long massage, start at the nape of your partners neck with your fingertips and gently work your way down across the neck and shoulders. This is not an exercise in sports massage so dont knead too harshly! Dont squeeze the collarbone and muscle as this is not comfortable, just work your fingertips in small circular motions. The neck area is often tense in most people and these gentle massage motions will help ease and relax your partner.
Stretch out the arms and massage the biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach the tail bone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings but dont apply too much pressure as many people have stiff vertebrae in this area and that is a job for a professional. Always remember the back is delicate and this is massage for fun - not to cure ailments! Move from this area back to the top and start again gently massaging away the stresses and tensions, apply pressure as you circle upwards towards the heart and ease off a little with the downward stroke. Use long strokes with the hand open touching the palm to the back and rib cage and use your thumb to apply the massage pressure, combine this with the circular motions alternating between the two techniques.
STILL Flirty ... not dirty!
Work your way down over her the buttocks momentarily and onto the thighs, especially the inner thighs which are very sensitive, as you stroke your hands palm down use your thumbs in circular motions to gently tease and tantalise the inner thigh area. Remain gentle and caressing, using long strokes up and down the leg. Start at the thigh and move on the the calf and finally the ankles and then feet. Massage the feet for ultimate relaxation but stay too long or you partner may fall asleep! Move back up to the inner thigh and add more oil to your hands.
Flirty and Dirty!
While you're massaging, lean over and let your chest or hair rub against the back ever so slightly. Let other parts of your body rub up against your partners while in the midst of your massage. From time to time, exhale slowly along the body and when you're about to come to finish the flirty part of the massage, nibble on your partners ear and kiss the nape of the neck. Allow one hand to wander between the legs and caress the intimate areas with oil still on your fingers. the oil and your hands will be warm which will heighten the arousal to be gained from sensual massage.
Kama Sutra - The Collection Set: What they recommend!
Challenge your lover to name every one of these different flavours within the collection with their eyes closed. The set features a tempting array of Oils of Love. These magic potions heat up on contact, imparting a warm tingly glow where ever they are rubbed. Slippery to the touch and irresistible to the tongue, this is sure to be one collection you won't mind delving into.
A tempting taste of each flavour: Original, Chocolate Mint, Cherry Almond, Raspberry Kiss and Vanilla Crème. If you prefer one taste best than 100ml bottles are available seperately from FlirtyorDirty.co.uk
well I hope thats whetted your appetites for a little try at sensual massage!
have fun,
Love Syble
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